Saturday, April 20, 2013

A Saturday Trek

Last year - late '12 - I'd say, my nana developed Alzheimer's. Since Grumps (what everyone called my grandpa) died in the late 90's, she had to move into an assisted living facility. That left my dad and two aunts with Grumps's old house, and a huge goldmine of stories and memories.
My dad traveled out to California, and set to work getting the house ready for the market. He brought home boxes and boxes of amazing family history - I've only partially delved into the first box, and there are many more! The picture above is from August, 1961, in Indiana. Dad scanned some of the photographs he found more memorable.
Since my dad is out, it's a lovely Saturday, and I have nobody barging into my time, I decided to look around history a bit. Since I'm a techie-lover by nature (and lazy) I first took a look at the photos my dad uploaded to his Facebook account. The pictures drove me to the verge of tears. I'll explain that later.
Before the two catastrophes that rocked my father's family, everything was what you'd expect in a typical 60's Indiana family. Grumps was a merchant and a golf aficionado. Gramma Sarah was the loving mother of four. Greg was the suave oldest child of the family (fifteen or sixteen in the photo above). Denise, though adopted, fit right in as the second oldest. She's standing next to Greg in the photo up there. My dad had just been born. He was a pretty chubby but optimistic baby. Kellie, my youngest aunt, had yet to be born.
I finally escaped the clutches of the soft sofa and headed down to the chilled basement for a peek in Dad's boxes. I found mostly photo albums from the late eighties (no doubt compiled by my step-grandma), "ancient" books, several Bibles, old photos of children I can't name, and letters from one friend to another. I even found a certificate of baptism for Uncle Greg when he was eighteen tucked in the pages of a well-read and well-worn old leather Bible. What brought me out of my sentimental weepy feeling was an album partially filled with newspaper clippings. All were from an old news paper, all were letters to the editor, all were penned by Grumps, and all concerned golf. Even as a girl with no knowledge of the sport, I couldn't help giggling at Grumps's rhetorically rich and entertaining letters. I'd never known my grandfather to be so, well, sassy! He criticized the new golf rules, snapped quick pokes at seemingly ridiculous regulations, and signed his name "Maury", short for Maurice.
History's a strange thing. Most think history can only be found in marbled metropolis museums, or thick, battered textbooks. I know better. I've encountered history in the weathered boxes downstairs, in the overstuffed scrapbooks, in the faded novels. What I saw and read made me giggle, wipe away tears, gasp in awe, and desire yet more. I've only stepped into one box. Who knows what treasures I still have yet to find!
To be continued . . .

Sunday, March 24, 2013

Small Girl, Big City

It's my first overnight school trip, and we are in New York City. I prefer to call it the Glitter City, referencing the evening view of the world from the top of the Empire State Building. The Glitter City is a bustling hybrid. Old buildings, new buildings, silence, cacophony, selflessness, selfishness, dark, bright. The contrasts continue on.
I've never possessed a desire to make one of these many apartment buildings home. I love the natural grass and wild woodlands and fleeting critters and thunderous mountains and wide fields. I could never leave the country land.
Admittedly, this city does have its appeal. There's a constant buzz of activity. Everything is plentiful and within reach. Cultures are squashed together yet retain their unique personalities.
I have to leave any minute now. The ferry to the esteemed Lady Liberty should be docking soon. Enjoy Spring Break (and, if you're on the East coast, enjoy the snow)!

Sunday, March 3, 2013

Winter


I love the cold. I love bundling up, wrapping myself in old, fuzzy blankets with engaging patterns. I love the rush indoors, and the sweet taste of chapstick on my lips. I love the little white flakes twirling and twisting in the air. I love when the world turns white. I love when I can barely see down the road. I love the rare warm days. I love the laughter echoing through high schools when flakes tumble down outside the windows. I love the long sleeves and knitted caps. I like the holidays and new beginnings. I love kissing cold metal. I love the reminders flashing across television screens, and the dancing around the house in pajamas when the announcement comes. I love the old movies played on the television. I love the bountiful tables and grins all around. I love the wrappings and trappings. I love the old songs, and the new songs, and the new spins on old songs.
I love the fuzzy socks in a rainbow of color. I love burying my head beneath a mountain of blankets. I love pulling the comforters from the tops of linen closets. I love snuggling my head into a stack of warm, clean laundry. I love the chocolate my mother always buys. I love the jackets and coats and vests. I love the scarves. I love the stacks of books with words not yet read. I love the little brothers sneaking in at early hours, begging to be told tales of manger scenes and heroes and dragons.
I love my dog's prancing through freshly fallen snow. I love the shrieks of children weaving through the drifts on bright sleds. I love the rush to the bus stop. I love sitting just above the bus engine and relishing in the heat. I love the view from the windows of the mountains on the horizon. I love the traffic slowing. I love the slippery slope of my driveway. I love leaving a bowl out on the porch, then tugging it back inside and eating the snow inside.
I love the strings of golden lights. I love the crackling fire. I love winter camp. I love eating ice cream when it's snowing outside. I love Jack Frost. I love his sketches on the world, and his daggers hanging from the roof.
I love winter.